
Please note: If you are underweight or believe you have an eating disorder please consult your GP, nutritionist or medical professional before creating a meal plan.
If you do not eat much then please don't feel forced to eat more than you are used to. Your stomach might need a while to re-adjust and this can take time. It is very important to make an appointment with your GP before changing your diet.
Normalizing eating does not happen overnight, therefore you need to take things easy and not be too hard on yourself.
Remember take baby steps and make small gradual changes, this is the way forth for recovery.
Because normal eating is the main goal for recovery - making the transition to normal eating is your top priority. Structured eating involves making yourself available to do planned eating at planned times each day.
Starting to normalize food intake can be scary. You should consider this stage an experimental stage. Remember if you are dissatisfied with the results you can always resume back to your former eating style - although, I can assure that you will not want to do that!
Creating a plan involves planning meals in advance of what will be eaten, when and how much.
Planning meals and times in advance takes the stress and strain away from deciding what to eat and when.
To do this you should plan tomorrow's meals and snacks the night before.
How to do this
The importance of meal spacing
You can choose when to eat but there shouldn't be more than a 3-4 hour gap between meals
This is an example of a time frame based on waking at 7.30am. Please alter times to suit you, leaving no longer than 3-4 hours between meals and snacks.
Meal spacing is important in preventing underrating and overeating. This involves not leaving longer than 3-4 hours in between eating. This period is to do with the emptying process of your liver to maintain blood glucose levels with stored carbohydrate. Depletion of this storage is associated with signs of hunger.
At the beginning it is difficult to interpret and act on internal sensations of hunger (Garner et al 1997). If you still binge between planned intervals then you can experiment with shorter intervals or eating more at each mealtime. Later down the line you will be able to respond to your own hunger and satiety levels instead of a structured eating plan.
Use your food journal daily to enter in all foods, binge episodes and times.
If you are binging then try to increase the amount of food you are eating at meal times
Review
Each week review your progress and eating patterns. Ask yourself the following:
The human body fights against any weight loss, as to defend its set-point.
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caitlin1988 been eating too horribly this weekend. 10 min ago |
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beautiful_babe Hey that's awesome I'm glad your having a great day! Ya I am addicted I have a halloween cupcake with a spider on it, my uncle that passed away his name with marijuana leaves around it very pretty, my aquarius sign, a star, sisters in japanese on my foot,a play boy bunny hehe I want another bad! I used to have one on my finger it said peace but it rubbed off I did that one myself lol. Ya my Bdays the 10th I wana try n get another one . I'm doing better thanks! Ttul hun! 16 min ago |
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beautiful_babe » ccampbell105 Hey, thanks ya I totally need to do that I'm alwa)s so tired and can never wake up I always sleep till 2pm or sometimes even 5pm its crazy! B ut ya I deff. Need to work on hanging with friends I'm sure it will also help me out a bit. So far todays alright I just woke up lol :/ so we'll see how it goes hopecfully better than yesterday. Ttul hun! 21 min ago |
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Miss H » erinkraig thank you! a wonderful day. went to the clinic, saw a baby be born. he was so cute. then i went for a run (which hurt) and came home and had a healthy tea -but now have a stomach ache! :( how are you? i hope you are having an equally wonderful day! 31 min ago |
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Miss H » lara_87 that's not the first time i've heard of people allowing themselves one b/p day a week. but it's good that you've decided to make it two weeks. but then what if you are okay and you don't want to, or do you think that part of it is because there are still certain aspects you like about the disorder? don't feel ashamed if it's true- I think it is for me. and just isn't it the worst when thin people call themselves fat. i do this ALL the time. so there is probably a secret bulimic friend who i know and who hates me for it... 33 min ago |
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Miss H » firestorm but you should definitely talk to your doctor. otherwise if you stay on them, you could end up going through the same again. or maybe they gave you too high a dose, so maybe they need to reduce it. oh i don't know what to suggest, but i'm slightly worried... i hope things work out. keep me updated, okay? 35 min ago |
Alright...so I'm not trying to trick myself into thinking I'm totally happy with my body image and am fine with any amount of weight gain, and so on.
I'm still struggling with my ED thoughts and my idea of the "perfect body" and desires to achieve it (although those thoughts and compulsions have lessened over the past few weeks, which is an amazing feeling in itself).
But I feel like I'm having little breakthroughs and it's making me really happy and helping me to believe in my own recovery more and more.
Yesterday I was alone in the apartment and was having a pretty good day - went shopping earlier and visited my sister and her dog, and was just hanging around until my boyfriend came back from out of town. Since I was bored, I thought
I'd go through my closet and play dress-up a little, just for fun. I was worried that it might make me feel depressed, because I've gained weight and bigger than even before my ED, since my body is at a high point of fluctuation as it re-balances itself, and I don't feel entirely comfortable with it. But I felt like I was strong enough, as I've done pretty well this week.
So I was trying on some dresses and heels and stuff and just playing around, and dresses that were once loose on me fit perfectly, which would've thrown me into a depression had this been a month ago.
When I tried them on at first, I had a little pang of "OMG...they FIT - OH NO!" but I managed to successfully ignore those thoughts and they went away pretty quickly - it felt good! Anyways, I have this one dress that's basically a "weight gain barometer" for me.
I bought it last year when I was probably 5 lbs thinner - I wasn't fully engaged in ED behaviour at that time though, it was during an "off" period (although I was semi-ana and weight obsessed, as was usual during those periods, just no b/p-ing).
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