how do you feel about telling your partner/bf/husband that you have had an eating disorder for many years or even most of your life?
I was able to stop b/p - though not obsessing about my weight - because of my relationship with my fiance. He never found out and I never told him anything. I couldn't even tell him I went to a psychotherapy for about 2,5 years. It's not that I don't trust him. It's just that I don't want him to think I am still ill. I'd feel controlled and observed by him if he knew. furthermore I don't want to talk about this sad chapter of my life with him because it is with him that I can feel happy and live a normal life. I don't want to spoil the happiness.
What do you think about this? do you think he might be angry if he found out one day I never told him about such a big matter?