Does anyone find their eating disorder is used against you in an argument with a brother or sister? I am 18 and my brother James is 14. I can understand he is at that "hormonal" age where nothing in life is right and he's stroppy etc... but I feel like he hates me and resents me because of my eating disorder. We will have a minor disagreement and he will use my bulimia as an insult. He says I have "destroyed the family" and "everything is your fault" He has becomes really aggressive if things don't quite go his way. I actually think my relationship with my brother is making my bulimia worse as anxiety is often a trigger to binge. We used to get along really well and now I hardly see him. He is awful to my parents and causes them to argue. I then get upset because of them falling out and again I binge with anxiety. My brother sometimes says he's going to broadcast me to the world as being bulimic and it really worries me.
Right this second he has just walked in and had a go at me! Typical... I am writing a post and he's horrible. I've always let it go as I've felt I deserve to feel awful about myself , but this just isn't helping my recovery.
Its such a shame